Hi Carol!

It’s okay to say no. You can’t be everything to everyone. Wait, didn't we say that a week ago? Yah, and it takes practice! How's the "practicing"?

In this month’s Wisdom Warriors (this month it's on the 2nd Monday, VALENTINE'S DAY!) we’ll be delving deeper into How your Mindset has you Stuck in Other People’s Expectations and What to Do About It.

We'll be talking about how you can:

• Learn the number one way to de-stuckify yourself from the “Chains of Expectation”
• Practice yes and no, so more people are happy in the end
• Discover your light; the one that you may never have known was there"

You can REGISTER HERE at no cost – more info at the end of this email.

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Practice yes or no, so more people are happy in the end

Saying NO is often not so easy.  Engrained deep down somewhere is the fear of rejection, the fear of someone else saying no to us. Somehow, with the busy lives we lead, many times we find ourselves saying yes, when really we should be saying no. We overstretch ourselves, tire ourselves, burn ourselves out and this could all be remediated by simply saying no. Discernment is critical. So why do we feel so uncomfortable about saying the two-letter word? Saying “no” may feel “aggressive” but it doesn’t necessarily make you the “bad one”. So how do we say NO and not “feel badly” about it? 

• Start by saying it! Many times, we don’t use “no! effectively. We find ourselves “beating around the bush”, providing useless explanations or getting ourselves into a mess when really all we need to say is no. Provide a short explanation if you wish to but keep it brief, stay away from excuses and be assertive and confident in the reasons for which you are saying no. 

• Set boundaries and understand your relationships – sometimes we can find it hard to say no because we haven’t taken the time to evaluate our relationships and understand our role within them. All solid relationships are built on trust and can withstand you saying no when saying yes just isn’t the right decision for you.

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BONUS!! Love 2x on Valentine's Day! 

This month, I'm hosting Wisdom Warriors, the OPEN group training/coaching where you get Loved Up on VALENTINE'S day from 12noon to 1pm.

As if that's not enough, my friend WENDY will be loving you up as a "caregiver" (aka if you are someone caring for an aging loved one) that day from 12:30-1:30pm EST! Wow!

You'll love the Wisdom Warriors! (it's like the blogs but a million times better)

Register (NOOOO cost!) for this group and never miss an opportunity to be inspired, educated and connected. F.R.E.E.

THIS MONTH WE ARE ON VALENTINE'S DAY!

And it's our Anniversary. You never know what might happen :)

When: 2/14/22 from 12noon to 1pm Eastern Time

Where: Zoom 

... YOU MUST Register IF YOU ARE NOT PART OF THE CLUB.  This month, It's on February 14th at noon Eastern, one hour and right on zoom. We will be discovering 'How your Mindset has you Stuck in Other People’s Expectations and What to Do About It'.

Don't miss it!

Register here

 >What's it Like at Wisdom Warriors?

• Quick answers to your current dilemmas…in real time. Don't know what to ask? No worries, we have a new HOT theme each month.
• The solution to the #1 issue for Entrepreneurs: Collaboration! You can collaborate with like-minded individuals for additional support…in real time AND outside of the group. Did anyone say accountability partner?
• And even more goodies: You get MUCH more than live calls once a month! You get unlimited Access to past and new group session recordings – to enhance your learning and growing OUTSIDE of our monthly calls

So....Want to get more focused, organized, and productive than you have EVER been? Let’s see what might happen if you dare to just “read the blogs” to taking the steps to get you to where you want to go, but perhaps have not dared to…. until now.

YES I want to be a Warrior!

 I’ll be there AND I can’t wait to meet you inside our ZOOM!

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